35. Bless your children

Last week we were reminded that all of God's promises are yes and amen in Jesus who fulfilled it all for us. All of His promises are therefore ours for the taking. We can truly claim it for ourselves. We should search out the promises that apply to our situation and then we should speak it out loud and claim it for ourselves. God is gracious and kind and wants to help us. He has given us everything that we need.

After seventeen years in Egypt and at the age of one hundred and forty seven, it was time for Jacob to die. It was truly a sad day for his sons and especially for Joseph as he loved his father very much. In those days the father used to bless his sons and prophecy over them on his death bed. And Jacob was no different. With the help of God's Spirit he prophesied over each of his sons. And he also took Manasseh and Ephraim as his sons too, even though they were Joseph's sons. And they became part of the tribes of Israel. In fact there are not twelve, but thirteen tribes of Israel because of this. Now when the tribes of Israel are mentioned in the Bible twelve is mentioned each time, with one omitted. Sometimes Ephraim and Manasseh are mentioned as one tribe namely Joseph. Other times Levi is omitted as they became the priests of God. And so it goes on. God had His reasons which one was omitted every time and it certainly makes for an interesting study.

Jacob first blessed the two sons of Joseph and then he continued prophesying over his other sons. Some received good blessings and others like Reuben who defiled his own father's bed did not. Now wonderful studies have been done looking at all of Jacob's prophesies and what came of it. It is very interesting as most of them came true. For example he prophesied that rulers would come from Judah and David and his line of kings did and ultimately Jesus also came from the line of Judah. I encourage you to go and read all these prophesies as well as what happened to the different tribes. Years later Moses would also prophesy over the different tribes of Israel and when you take the two prophesies together for all the tribes it is truly interesting and a topic for another day.

For now I just want to leave one idea with you. I think it is wonderful that fathers bless their sons. Jewish families do it on a weekly basis. Once a week they have Sabbath, their day of rest and then they have a family meal together. And after the meal the father will stand up and bless each of his sons. And I believe that besides God blessing Israel and declaring that the descendants of Abraham will be blessed, one of the reasons why the Jews are so successful is because of this weekly fatherly blessing.

We all know that our words carry power. The Word tells us that and I am sure you have heard it from different people. And it is so true. God created by speaking and we are created in His image. Therefore what we speak also has creating power. And when a father as head of the house speaks a blessing over his sons it carries creating power too.

Now we do not have to be religious about it and have Sabbath every week, but I truly think it would be a great idea if the father of the house blesses his children on a regular basis. I believe it will do the world of good if he proclaimed God's promises in His Word over the children's lives. It can make a huge difference in a child's life and I believe that we should do it more often. If you do not have children then you can speak blessings and the promises of God over those closest to you too. Start doing it this week. May you be pleasantly surprised in the weeks, months and years to come.

Father thank you that You have big dreams for our children. Thank you that You love them and have good plans for them. Help us to speak in line with those promises and that Your will be done in their lives. Use us as Your vessels, we want to speak Your Word into this world and make a difference with the sword of Your Word in our hands. Amen

1 comment for “35. Bless your children”

  1. Gravatar of MariMari
    Posted Monday, 12 September 2022 at 6:57:56 PM

    Dis hoekom die Jode so geseend is. Jammer dat so min vaders v ons Afrikaners dit vandag doen. Dankie Ilze

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